Following a recent thread I joined in about sensory deprivation on Informed Consent I thought it appropriate to share My more extended thoughts with My readers here.

In general I like to take a very holistic approach to a scene so I tend to address all the senses as much as possible - even more so when I use sensory deprivation as part of My play. I find that heightening a sense prior to taking it away is lovely as it also increases the sense of loss in the person I’m playing as well as the knowledge that I am in control of them.

It’s so much more delicious to make eyes hungry for vision before making them blind, I also ensure that the last image that is taken into the darkness is that of My green eyes. I use music to induce certain states in those who serve Me too, up to and including training someone to a specific track. This I consider not only useful in scenes as it helps the serve to get into a specific head-space quickly, but it is also a “gift” as they can obtain the track (or I send it to them) so they can “feel Me” in between visits. I will also use hearing and manipulate it by wearing shoes which make a specific sound or wear jewellery which is noisy…right up until I make them blind…I then remove the items and can move with unexpected stealth and this adds to the moment. All very subtle things that many would not consider using, but which I find add to the experience and depth of submission offered to Me.

Making someone deaf and blind means they have fewer distractions and their sense of touch is heightened. I can then use this heightened awareness to stimulate the flesh with various textures (silk, satin, leather, latex/rubber, feathers, knives, etc). A deaf and blind serve will also receive far worse punishment if they don’t know when the next fall of the tawse, whip or crop is coming! LOL!

Those who have served Me will probably tell you that the first thing I bind them with is My very distinctive smell (I only EVER wear Obsession by Calvin Klein but add a twist of My own to it!), followed by My tone of voice and the look in My eye. Make them WANT the sense before making them deaf, blind, etc I say!

Sensually

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Work has started on My website overhaul. My little girl, mara, has been working on some lovely shiny things to put on the site - like a flash intro etc, and I’ll be sending over some of the things I already have in hand (thanks to norty) so that work can continue. I usually do the work Myself, but I’m so busy right now I will have to oversee it, though it DOES make sense, after all, why have dogs and bark Yourself!

I’ll let you know how the site progresses (with a fully working members area - though much of the site will remain free as ever) as time goes by.

As soon as I get all My assignment results I’ll post them up as so many of you have enquired after them. Right now I’m off to work on another creative project……I’ll bet lots of you would like to know how I sound as well as look wouldn’t you????

Creatively

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While I was at the Knife Play Workshop it was lovely to meet up with some old friends. One I’ve not seen in an absolute age is the lovely Mistress Lady Annawho is a good friend of Mine. We had a “heated” debate over a little competition we’ve been having - the subject matter of which made several people very uncomfortable!

You see, We’re holding a small competition between Us. The idea being that We each want the title of “most needles pierced through a subs penis”! Lady Anna has claimed 212, but I say She shouldn’t be allowed that number as a LOT were in the scrotum. Not that they didn’t look lovely, it’s just the idea was the “penis pin” and the scrotum is NOT it! In the end We threw it open to general debate! LOL! This ended up in us all wondering where the penis was deemed to actually start and both Lady Anna and I deciding to advertise for needle loving subs that are blessed with a large penises!

Pointedly

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PS You are not Zorro! x

As you by now know I attend quite a few fetish events, even when My time is constrained with other commitments. You are probably also aware that Eric Stanton is a good friend of Mine. Now, at Christmas He told Me that He was in fact Santa and that I should sit on His lap and tell Him if I’d been naughty or nice. Personally, I think His wanting Me to sit on His lap had a LOT to do with the exceptionally brief skirt and delicious corset (thank you My toy) I was wearing at the time (how else does One let One’s subs worship divine feet and legs?).

I digress, the thing is, just recently, everywhere I go, there He is. I’m starting to think He might have been telling the truth about being Santa (though He’s entirely the wrong shape, but I suppose He might use padding!) as it would help to explain how He’s so omnipresent! Think about it, Santa has to be everywhere on one night, and everywhere I go, there’s Eric.

Scary thought innit? You think He’s the Easter Bunny too???????

Seasonally

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Kenai and I attended the Simply Workshops Knife Play workshop today. That it even took place is a testimony to the unwavering dedication of the Nemesis II family and their sheer damn hard work! Despite the fact that they are in the process of sourcing new premises (don’t forget My offer dear readers!), they made a temporary venue into a haven of kink. If any of you everhave any doubts about attending a Nemesis event in a temporary venue, silence those doubts now. I can assure you Personally that they magically transform an ordinary venue into the kind of environment we have come to expect of Nemesis.

The workshop was fascinating. Although I already play with knives, I felt that there was definitely something worthwhile to learn from the workshop, only to discover My thoughts were an understatement! Health and Safety was adequately covered by Badge, and then the exciting part began! Warlock, who has an obvious passion for knives, as well as extensive knowledge, gave a wonderful explanation of how to select a good quality knife and how to care for it. He also shared some delightful techniques which we then practiced on some victims, I mean volunteers! Following him was Master Cosmic, who shares the same passion. His talk was deviantly creative and expanded on the techniques imparted by Warlock.

The run order was spot on. The presenters had obviously got a deep and genuine knowledge of their subject and I would recommend attending if you get the opportunity. I’ve certainly extended My existing knowledge and range in this area (though poor Kenai wasn’t happy with some of the little notes I made with play ideas which were inspired there! LOL!).

The only complaint was how long the venue took to warm up…and that I couldn’t wear stiletto shoes. In fact, I had to go ion disguise, dressed “vanilla”…..as you can imagine, this required Internet research and much hanging out of windows to see how it was done. I’m not 100% sure I managed it really! LOL!

Sharply

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It’s always nice when a valued friend comes to visit Me, and today was no exception. My dear footslave came to see Me, bearing gifts of yummy red wine and My favourite Sobranie cigarettes. I rewarded him by granting him his first experience of being mummified in cling wrap and pallet wrap. As this was his first ever time being placed in this sort of bondage and then tortured, I didn’t bother with any absorbent layers between his skin and the wraps (after all, when a sub has sweated at My feet for a length of time, it’s so useful to have a source of moisture for them to re-hydrate with, and what better than their own sweat - it’s recycling too! LOL!).

As you can see, I wrapped him nicely (naturally I tenderised his flesh with a spanking) and then, after laughing at My little torture-worms’ antics at wriggling to the floor while blindfolded and bound, I proceeded to use My pin wheels to create little “tear here” sections for Me to torture him through. While I left him priming in clamps for the things I had in mind for him, I amused Myself by leaning nonchalantly across My torture-worm furniture while I treated My dear Kenai to a lovely new present I’d bought for him - it completely took his breath away! LOL!

As they’d been such very good boys when I’d done with them, footslave was rewarded with the privilege of worshiping My adorable feet and dear Kenai got to say thank You higher up! Mmmmmmm…….and tomorrow I’m off to play with knives as I’ll be extending My range and knowledge by attending a workshop hosted by Nemesis. I’m of the opinion that one never stops learning and can always refine techniques.

Now I’m sure, dear reader, you’d love to know exactly what it was that I got up to, wouldn’t you? And you’d also be completely correct in thinking that I keep a record of such things, as well as all manner of delicious tidbits. Want to know where????????  

With dark chuckles

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