This week I’ve had several comments about My published play-list (located on several of My social network profiles such as MySpace, MyDommeSpace etc). Firstly, thank you for the compliments! Each track holds a memory and are all tracks I scene to as well (except Celine Dion - the inclusion is a hugely personal message to someone very exceptional).

Most of the tracks have some history behind them too, and are included as a salute to some exceptionally dear people. Some of whom I am delighted to say remain touching My world, others are those who shared some divine moments with Me before our paths diverged.

So there you go, the story behind My musical tastes which I share on the web. Yes, OK, and there is some cuntry in it for crying out loud (Johnny Cash is cuntry isn’t he?).

Music is a very important part of My scenes. It helps to set not only the tone and mood, but helps to steady Me off at times and not get carried away too much….or to keep the energy high and fast paced! Hence the selections shared vary so much in tempo (look, I resisted the “beat” joke! LOL!). I delight in selecting music with “either/or” lyrics as this can have a fantastic impact on the person I’m playing. As much as possible I try to include music that will be played on the radio or that will be encountered in a vanilla setting. I just ADORE the thought of My dear little pets going all warm at the memory of a moment shared under My hand when they least expect it and can least afford to show it! Social bondage as a cheeky bonus! LOL!

Musically

Mistress

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While perusing the boards on Informed Consent it struck Me how intolerant we often are of each other as human beings. OK, so something that is stressing someone else out that wouldn’t make you turn a hair. But to people things are proportionate. If the the worst thing they have had to face is splitting up with a partner it’s going to feel a genuinely awful event. If you have had to hold your partner while they die, splitting up will seem painful but not the end of the world. Your life experience will have taught you how to deal with events that are more traumatic than the other person.

There is also a huge variation in the way that we deal with things. I’m aware, for example, that My personal reactions are unusual in that I tend to deal with a crisis very calmly and then get the emotional blast later, while others tend to be hit with the emotional impact at the time - making them freeze up, fight irrationally or run away with their problem chasing after them. It took  Me years to realise that My  reaction was unusual and that other’s didn’t respond in the same manner. It doesn’t make any of us wrong, just different.

Next time you are about to flame someone on a discussion board, stop and think for a few minutes first. Are they really being a wussy drama queen, or is their frame of reference different to yours? Does it matter what they have said in the past? Have they grown and changed over time and been brave enough to share this process? If you really think they are being a dick (and they’re not hurting anyone else), why are you bothering to say something? After all, who really IS the dick then?

Provocatively

Mistress

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Wishing that delightful cow-bag Lady Alpha a very Happy Birthday!

Yes, of course You can use My little Rubber Switch darling! The least I can do as a birthday gift (ideally he’ll convey Your gift from Me to You in his teeth at the end of a leash! LOL!) Hope to see You at the Nemesis event on Saturday!

Warmly

Mistress

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This next post isn’t written by Me, rather it comes from the keyboard of My good friend Mistress Maxcine. She posted this up as a comment originally….but it’s so bloody funny it merits having it’s own posting. Even I’m not so sadistic I wouldn’t share this. So for those of you who enjoyed Death of a blankie I proudly present “Tranny in a Ditch” by Mistress Maxcine!

Tranny in A Ditch

Having read Mistress Anath’s very amusing and accurate account of that fateful, yet enjoyable night, I cant help feeling that it would be advantageous, if not informative to have a different aspect of accounts from another member of that perverted group.

I feel it would be especially of use to other “T” girls should they find themselves in a similar position in the future, ie: finding themselves at 5 o’clock in the morning packed in a car like sardines with a stunning! Bisexual Mistress and four fine examples of the male species one of which had his head clamped firmly between my thighs!! I know girls! Dream on!!!!

Well as we all know any women can put on the makeup and nice clothes and look sensational but its takes a real Tranny to know how to dress! and this particular night was no exceptional though I do say so myself. However, I would be the first to admit that “real” women do have other advantages and assets that prove more, shall we say “useful” in such situations as we found ourselves that fateful morning more of which I will tell you about later.
While the “boys” were up to their ankles in mud! swearing, groaning and grunting trying to remove “said” car from the ditch Mistress Anath and myself decide to make the most of a bad situation and rather splendid morning and go for an early morning stroll, which isn’t the easy in four inch high thigh boots! Anyway, we told the guys that we were going to try and find some help, so we left them picking branches, pulling up grass and carrying stones around, Why?? We didn’t have the slightest idea and just assumed that they must have been boy scouts at some stage in their lives and were drawing on the past experience’s gained while sitting round a camp fire playing with their “Woggles” (like boys do)

As we walked off toward the sunrise, this unlikely pair: a six foot slim blonde Tranny dressed in a rather fetching long black three quarter length skirt, crisp white cotton blouse, thigh boots, black satin gloves gold wrist watch and earrings to match and contrasting red bag and scarf, and Mistress Anath “also” looking stunning in her Dick Turpin outfit wearing thigh boots on her rather short, yet well proportioned legs, black tight leggings a black cape, tri-corner hat a red satin under bust corset working overtime in a supporting role! Which proved to be the saviour of the day!!

As we approached the end of the lane we came upon a garage it was decide that we would use our helpless female act and try and gain assistance but as we reached the forecourt a car as already mention was just pulling out with four rather “stoned” and “high” young lads within, their faces were a picture as Dick Turpin and her six foot tranny companion explained the situation and requested their help.

I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall the following morning when they came “down” from there drug induced state and the conversation that followed, “ God! That was really good shit! we smoked last night I was so high at one point I though I was talking to a six foot stunning! Tranny and Dick Turpin who had breasts!!!

Although, at first the lads seemed keen to help, as Mistress Anath has already mentioned, the sight of our fellow companions dressed in kink still collecting stones and branches only encouraged them to select reverse and leave the lane quicker than entering it. I don’t know MEN! You leave them to do a simple job! And look what happends!

After a short discussion Mistress Anath and myself decided that one of us should return to the car and give moral support, and the other seek further help from a factory just across the road full of male workers! The only decision left to be made was who would have the best success in enticing such assistance.

Although I have to say it was a close run thing I decided that due to my five o’clock shadow now fighting its way though the makeup, that perhaps Mistress Anath might stand a “slightly” better chance of securing assistance, and besides, lets face it speaking as a “T” girl there are many enhancements for that womanly figure on the market, especially when it comes to breasts! I personally use a pound and a half of good quality Basmati rice (uncooked) tied in an old stocking with a knot at the top for a nipple and although this gives pleasing and realistic results let face it fella’s you cant beat the real thing!

When Mistress Anath returned with Eric I couldn’t help think more “Pied Piper of Hamlet” rather than Dick Turpin.

Happy in Kink
Mistress Maxine

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I had an interesting conversation with someone today. He commented that he is lucky to know so many great people. While this is true and it’s lovely to see someone appreciate the quality of people in their life, it also struck Me that he was oblivious to his own unique and remarkable qualities. When I asked him about this, he expressed the opinion that he was “just ordinary”.

So many people fail to see their uniqueness and they way they enrich the lives of others around them. I find that this is particularly true of some submissives. Usually the more remarkable they are, the more difficulty they have in embracing the idea that they are unique and valuable as humans and exceptional as submissives.

Submission requires strength, integrity (unless you take the “easy route” and falsify your submission using poppers!), honesty, openness and the will to let go of control and entrust it to Another. To be able to offer submission is a special gift that few genuinely hold and should be cherished by the lucky Recipient.

Make today one where you actually stop and find at least one thing you value in yourself. Find a talent that you know others appreciate, even if they fail to verbalise it - you do know what that skill is, your friends will tell you in other ways even if they don’t say it out loud. Once you’ve given yourself that pat on the back, tell the person you are closest to how much you appreciate a quality of theirs. See how much better today just got?

Thoughtfully

Mistress

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Ok, so what do you wear to a munch? What do you wear to declare you are a  proud member of the Kinkdom while you stroll through vanilla land? The answer just got a lot simpler….you wear a Twisted-T!

Creatively

Mistress

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