Mistress Muses

Held safe in bliss

Following My recent posts on emulation and plastic dommes, I’ve been asked for advice on how to select a Dom/me to serve.

So, how do you check to see if the Dom/me you feel you want to serve is genuine? here’s a brief guide:

1. Can you contact Them and discuss matters?
2. Will They use safewords during an initial session? If they don’t, they are frankly too far up their own arse to take either your submission or safety seriously.
3. Can they provide links to community sites they participate in? If not, how “lifestyle”/genuine are they? Does anyone else in the community know them?
4. How consistent are they?
5. How effective is their use of their first language? If it’s grammatically or contextually incorrect, the chance is that they have “lifted” chunks of their site from someone else. The odd typo is understandable - more so if you are reading a site in a second language. However, huge errors in a primary/mother language indicate a lack of comprehension and inattention to detail.
6. If they use “big words” and offer considered ideas, can they expand and/or clarify these to you on request?

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