After a wonderful weekend spent with Kenai, I had the delight of a returning serve who is showing some lovely development since he’s been attending regularly. He’s climbing his way up My pain scale for nipple torture nicely, though I must confess I got carried away this time and when he asked how he was doing on the scale I snarled “who cares?!” and carried on torturing him! LOL! He also had his first flogging, though I took things very gently this time to see how his marking develops. OK, there may have been some crops and canes in there too!

Dear Rubber Switch{TM} arrived to collect his birthday gift from Me (I still owe him the bleeding/trophy part! LOL!) but he collect his “sound gift” and has been left feeling like he’s pissing razor blades. It’s his own fault as he loves sound play so much that he’s inclined to ride the sound while it’s inside him! The end result being that the sound is sent further inside at a faster pace than anticipated. In effect making him fuck the sound. Little tart! LOL!

Yesterday saw Me take delivery of a very special new toy, I am the delighted owner of My very own Torture Toy. he was afraid that after 3 years lack of practice he would let Me down, and fail to be entertaining. Bless him, quite the reverse was true and I was more than delighted in his performance. his meaty nipples were more than up to the sins I laid upon them and he took to sound play like he’d been used to it for ever! In fact, I was using the gravity method (always the safest way to introduce sound play to a novice) and he relaxed so much I had the devil’s job getting it back! Rather than be concerned about safety, I was heard muttering “don’t you DARE swallow that, it’s part of a matched set you know!” LOL! Needless to say, a few muscle contractions later and My sound was returned to Me!

Torture Toy took Me out for a lovely meal, and I enjoyed his company hugely. I can see a future containing a lot of fun and development with My new toy…..he may even earn his place in My stable

Hedonistically

Mistress

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Encouraging all party goers and throwers to show Amnesty some Love. Throw a Party for Human Rights! Protect The Human is week is comin real soon - 11-17 October 2008. But don’t fret supporters hold Protect The Human events all year round, raising vital funds and awareness for Amnesty International. So whenever you feel like it… throw a party and celebrate human rights. Grab one of their fantastic *free* party kits, some mates, a venue, ship the proceeds off to Amnesty- et voila. A great time, whilst supporting vital Human Rights work.

Humanely

Mistress

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Amnesty can be found on: MySpace and Facebook

As a Domina I get asked to own people frequently, often as an initial contact or very soon after I’ve started talking to someone. Obviously, being responsible, and being a Lifestyle Mistress who takes such things very seriously, I refuse them.

However, it occurs to Me that perhaps the subs themselves need to think a little more about the request they make and how early they make it.  Some points to consider before you request ownership:

1. WHY do you wish THIS particular Dominant to own you?
2. Do you accept the full responsibility of being owned? The work, the dedication and the loyalty required are significant.
3. Do you want to be owned because you feel that the Dominant will then make all your decisions for you and that your life will become easier?
4. Where does the Dominant draw Their authority from?
5. What gifts can you bring to the Dominant to make Them look favourably on your request? And no, saying “i’ll do whatever You say and take whatever You want to give” is nowhere near close enough. Dominants get around 5+ such approaches like this every day!
6. What is your understanding of being owned?
7. How do you hope the Dominant will behave towards you if They own you?
8. What is the Dominants expectations of you if They do decide to own you?
9. Do you get along as human beings?

Until these very fundamental issues are addressed it is pointless to attempt to be owned unless you are happy at a much shallower end of D/s interaction, where basically things are light hearted roll play for titillation. This is where genuine members of the United Kinkdom consider the “spank & wank” brigade exist.

Are you happy to be swimming in these sparkling shallow waters? Or would you prefer to have the option to dive more deeply into all that a D/s interaction can be, and perhaps explore the intensity of ownership fully? If you want to be taken seriously, then remember to take your submission seriously and to value it… that way when you kneel before a geniuine Dominant requesting ownership, you will have something of worth to offer to Them.

Wishing My own dear Rubber Switch {TM}t a very Happy Birthday!

Warmly

Mistress

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Updates have been made to the Mistress Anath website:

• Links page updated with pictures of Mistress
• Home page updated with new picture
• Kinkz services updated and new image loaded
• Tribute page image updated

It’s a new term in My studies and I finally have My new timetable. There’s a possibility of an alteration to Wednesday & Friday times in the next couple of weeks.

I’ve updated My available times on the Availability page and amended My calendar to reflect these changes.

Please note I’ll be available from the last time displayed as “Lectures” because I’ve already allowed for travel & getting changed times within those displayed.

Now you know with clarity when you can kneel at My feet so I can unwind your soul and dance across your flesh!

Mistress

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