Please note, although I am back on-line, I’m NOT using My own computer. Hedge has kindly made her laptop available to Me because I need Internet access for My degree, as well as for My other interests. Thank you so much Hedge! 

However, this means that I will be unable to organise the Outer Sanctum Newsletter until My own PC has undergone surgery as all relevant software is on Mine.

My apologies to those of you who have opted into the Newsletter and are patiently waiting! As soon as is humanly possible this matter will be attended to.

Appreciatively

Mistress

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When is a Dominant not a Dominant? The answer, in My opinion, is that as Dominance is an internal event, a Dominant is always a Dominant. However, many get caught up in a system of “ought to”  behaviours. I’ve read many threads on Informed Consent about whether or not a Femme-Domme is still being Dominant if She enjoys sex in missionary position. This seems bizarre to Me in all honesty. It’s akin to maintaining that skin colour will alter if a person stands on one leg!

The fact that these things are even debated shows that we are ascribing a set of values and expected behaviours onto people who should be free to be who T/they are as long as T/they don’t cause others harm. What happened to embracing the beautiful uniqueness of individuality?

I recently entered into correspondence with a Dominant who was finding it almost impossible to explore an aspect of themselves because of such pre-concieved notions. How ridiculous that they should find this to be the case in a community that prides itself on openness of expression. If I enjoy sensuality does that make Me less Dominant? No! Because I’m Dominant and comprehend this on a deep level I’m free to express Myself as I wish. Because I understand that others are limited in their perceptions, I’m mindful about how and where I express certain aspects of Myself, not because it would leave Me feeling I had “lost face” or authority in some odd manner, but because I’m aware that it would cause others to feel too challenged and insecure.

However, this definition of Dominance then leads to a deeper question. If Dominance is something which is intrinsic to the make-up of that person, rather than posturing, use of equipment or adoption of a style of dress… How many Dominants are there really?

Challengingly

Mistress

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We’re having heaps of fun in The Outer Sanctum. Definitely one of My better ideas! Despite the fact that it’s early days, the Public Instructions and Confessional are proving popular and LOTS of fun!

So far, 4 serves are rising to My first challenge although they are not permitted to gain any satisfaction from it! LOL!

 It would be lovely to see some more t-girls in the Sanctum as they are very under-represented at the moment. There’s a fair number of novices, and the feedback is that they are finding it a supportive environment in which to establish how they feel about the Dark Dance.

I look forward to the Outer Sanctum growing stronger and more active as time passes. Hope to see you there!

Communally

Mistress

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Wishing the unique Mistress Maxcine a wonderful birthday!

Warmly

Mistress

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Today sees the launch of The Outer Sanctum Adult Community. Please be aware that it is in the early stages, but so far response has been very positive. As with anything I found there are rules in place, but they are few and designed to protect the rich diversity of members. The site is free to join, and even has little widgets you can use on Facebook, MySpace etc that carry My logo.

Come and join the fun, meet fellow community members and enjoy the chat room!

Creatively

Mistress

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boundnbegging, you were found wanting and placed on orgasm punishment…today you are permited to stop bringing yourself to the edge of climax by kneeling on the floor for Me and bringing yourself to the edge of climax FIVE times. On your SIXTH attempt you must catch your pearly jizz on a saucer and place it on the floor and lap it up like the bad kitty you are while masturbating to a further climax. you will thank Me for My kindness in correcting your behaviour as a comment to this entry, and by sending Me a picture of your flesh bearing the words “thank you Mistress” just above your flaccid man-meat which I will post at My leasure. Please Me in this and I will grace you with a service I require. Fail and another will be permitted to scrawl on his pathetic flesh for Me. 

Humiliatingly

Mistress

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