Mistress Muses

Yesterday was lovely in the end. The munch was well organised by ZakRLee and Miss Nix set a devilish quiz (BAH! Smarties indeed!) that was enjoyed by all. Rubber-Switch was lovely and behaved himself, even though I’d not let him out of his collar! LOL!

I enjoyed catching up with old friends…..waves at: Goldmane, Gold’s girl, t-tigger, Q, Miss Nix,  cuius umbra (who discovered the difference between a Woman and a Lady! LOL!) and (the omnipresent) Eric Stanton...

as well as meeting some new ones… waves at: “shoe sub” (those were lovely!), cats eyes, Master Neo & phoenix amber, et al!

A munch is wonderful thing to attend if you are new to the Kinkdom, want to find out more about the scene or hope to establish something more concrete in your life. They are informal (mostly) meetings in local pubs. Generally you are expected to tip up in ordinary clothing rather than spend a fortune on fetish wear, and most offer a “meet & greet” option for the nervous novice’s first solo flight. Indeed, I have often acted in this role at munches, helping a newbie not to feel quite so daunted at entering a room full of strangers. Those who attend munches are a mixed bag, but have a few things in common: the majority are friendly and welcoming, they all enjoy and embrace their lifestyle choices and they are all still learning new things (we never stop learning, any of us).

If you are unsure about attending a munch, get yourself along to Informed Consent and look up your nearest one and give it a go. The only thing you stand to lose is a few hours of your time and the sense of isolation you are wrapped in.

Warmly

Mistress

x

P.S. And thank you to those of you who brought Me so much peace of mind and happiness yesterday.

Next York Munch: April 9th Auction Night